DEAR MISS MANNERS: I received an invitation for a work-sponsored event. The invitation states: “To help us minimize our environmental footprint and make cleanup easier, we kindly ask that you bring your own silverware, plate and beverage container.”

So, when I arrive, I will be toting a plate, some silverware (not sure if I will need a knife or a spoon) and a cup or water bottle. Then when I leave, I will be taking home these same items, now dirty. This feels quite awkward to me -- and messy!

My daughter also received an invitation to an event that asked that she bring her own beverage container. Is this a new trend? What do you think of these requests?

GENTLE READER: Your workplace is playing fast and loose with the words “sponsored” and “event.” If the guests are providing basic sup

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