Sometimes I think I might date like a man. Which is to say, sometimes I think I might be the problem.

I’m someone with both “fun, casual dates” and “a long-term relationship” in the “What I’m Looking For” section of my dating app profiles . I’m not confused; just generally open to seeing where things go. I don’t want kids and am not particularly inclined towards marriage, so my love life is largely free of biological clock–imposed timelines. Sure, I’m looking for love in the “aren’t we all?” sense, but I’m pretty indifferent to labels . I want to love and be loved but not necessarily under the banner of “girlfriend” or “fiancée” or “wife.” In short, whatever it is I’m doing with my romantic life, it’s pretty much the opposite of “intentional dating”—a trend of which I am admittedly sk

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