Dear Annie: Empty-nest mom finds she’s resenting adult kids living their own lives

Dear Annie: Now that my youngest left for college, everyone keeps telling me I’ve “entered my freedom era.” The truth is, I feel anything but free. I miss the chaos of packed lunches, carpool arguments and sports gear in the hallway.

My two grown kids call, but only when they’re driving or walking somewhere. Conversations feel rushed, like I’m a box they’re checking off. When they do come home, they’re on their phones or making plans with friends. I end up cooking, cleaning and pretending I’m not hurt.

My husband seems to be adjusting fine. He’s golfing more, and when I try to talk about how lonely I feel, he says I should “find a hobby.”

How do I build a new life without resenting the people I raised to leave? -- Empty Nest, Full Heart

Dear Full Heart: Your kids aren’t rejecting you;