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Dear Pay Dirt,

One of my 15-year-old daughter’s favorite books— Heated Rivalry— has been adapted into a TV show . She’d told me about this book when she first read it: Two rival hockey players flirt for years and then fall in love. It sounded nice! But now that this TV show is out, I realize that her description of the book was quite … sanitized.

In reality, the book is about two adult men who are having sex with each other without being in a relationship! I saw some clips and could not believe what I was looking at.

My daughter is just the best. Good grades, responsible, funny, still hangs out with her mom sometimes—couldn’t ask for more. I know that a lot o

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