Dear Eric: I am married to a wonderful woman who is a fixer of things. It’s not either of our first marriages, and we have a large, blended family of adult children, some with spouses and children, that generally gets along well.
One of her kids brought up the idea of a family beach vacation. There’s a group chat with her children that I haven’t seen, but when my wife was talking to one of the kids, it became apparent that the group isn’t going to invite my children.
At first, I thought this was a problem, but the more I think about it, I believe it’s a bit of nostalgia for their childhood trips that also acknowledges there are more people now involved by bringing spouses and children but still feeling like it’s their core sibling group.
I think my issue is with my wife. She received th