“Brokenhearted in Ohio” expressed hurt over perceived neglect and ingratitude when she wrote in to Dear Annie.
The central conflict stems from feeling forgotten by her two adult granddaughters , despite having showered them with expensive gifts and significant attention throughout their childhood. She expresses deep hurt that she does not receive a phone call for her birthday or Mother’s Day, while observing them publicly post tributes to their deceased maternal grandmother on social media.
This contrast between her perceived lack of acknowledgment and their dedication to another relative leaves her feeling left out and unappreciated for her past material and emotional investment in their lives.
Annie advised the grandmother to fundamentally shift her perspective away from bitterness