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Chronic desire differences can be the result of blah sex.

Canadian researchers find that desire differences can be resolved by improving the quality of sex.

They recommend embracing eight elements ... and maybe two more.

A previous post summarized the many myths about desire differences and the sex- therapy approach to resolving them—using either self-help or professional therapy. The sex-therapy program helps many couples—but not all. Recently, Canadian researchers reported an effective new approach, eight weeks of group therapy that produced significant benefits. It’s based on reimagining lovemaking to facilitate sex worth wanting.

What if Low Desire Is a Reasonable Response to Lackluster Sex?

Back in 2005, the Canadian team was not focused on desire differences. Th

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