Pain is in! Lock him down and throw away the key! Let’s talk the state of sex, bois, as now we begin closing in on 2026, where anything now goes in the bedroom so long as you’re not the one held personally accountable or calling the playbook rules behind closed doors.

Civilization, here suddenly at summer’s end, is all turning sub. Giving up even the ghost of thinking independently anymore, seems everybody wants to be dommed — or at least doesn’t want to be the one having to make decisions…. Go figure?

And upon each autumnal advent, no matter what I’m personally doing, or wherever I happen to be, total strangers always begin asking me, “Howard, what’s the hottest, most trending-new sex toy for the upcoming holiday season?” Being at the 20th anniversary year of my helming a gay sex advice

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