Q: I have a co-worker who keeps pulling dirty tricks on me. I know revenge makes me look bad but I want to get even. How can you work with a guy who undermines you without starting a revenge campaign?

A: You can work with someone who undermines you without starting a revenge campaign by realizing the best revenge is your own success. You have to ask yourself: Do you hate him more than you love yourself? You cannot pursue an optimal work life while putting energy into undermining your co-worker.

The good news is you can predict what your co-worker will do. Your suffering has made you wise to all his tricks. Use your knowledge to avoid the traps you know he’ll set for you.

The school of hard knocks does have expensive tuition but it makes us realistic and wise. People who suffer the mos

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