Your Mileage May Vary is an advice column offering you a unique framework for thinking through your moral dilemmas. It’s based on value pluralism — the idea that each of us has multiple values that are equally valid but that often conflict with each other. To submit a question, fill out this anonymous form. Here’s this week’s question from a reader, condensed and edited for clarity:

My partner and I are having a disagreement about JK Rowling that we want you to weigh in on. For reference, we’re a same-sex couple, and despite our different upbringing, we tend to have similar moral compasses and political feelings.

I love the Harry Potter world — books, movies, broadway plays, video games, etc. He never did. We both agree that JK Rowling’s transphobia is problematic and not something we to

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