Hey Bestie,

Winter used to be our cosy time, hot drinks, movies, cuddles. But lately, my partner and I just feel distant, like housemates in hoodies. I want that spark back but don’t know where to start. Help?

You’re not alone. Winter has a way of slowing things down, darker mornings, earlier nights, and about 75% more time in tracksuit pants. And while that sounds dreamy in theory, in reality, it can make our relationships feel a little… well, chilly.

When you said “housemates in hoodies,” I felt that. It’s the perfect image for what so many couples go through during this season, coexisting, functional, but emotionally miles apart. The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck in roommate mode. With a little intention and a lot of softness, winter can actually become your season of recon

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