• I wasn't ready for grandparenting to come with so many rules and drama. • I had to learn new rules, and following them has benefits. • I'm also a sounding board for my grandkids' parents about their worries and stress.

I thought becoming a grandma would be all treats, cuddles, and sending the kids home at bedtime. I pictured cookies in the oven and knitting the perfect blanket that would be treasured forever.

Instead, grandparenting for me came with rules, compromises, and more drama than I bargained for.

My rules aren't their rules

Take the ring pop. That glittering, oversize jewel on a plastic band is my go-to treat. But in my grandkids' home, sugar and red dye were not allowed. I thought that rule surely did not apply when they were at my place. Turns out it did.

I could snea

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