Exclusive | Meet the married men who, like Keith Urban, walked out of their decades-long marriages — and the man who's made a profession out of guiding them

In the past 20 years, attorney John Nachlinger has handled more than 2,000 divorces.

A self-described “men’s divorce strategist,” Nachlinger wants dissatisfied husbands to know that calling it quits isn’t a sign of defeat, but of bravery and self-care. In 2020, he even started a podcast and will soon publish a book — both bluntly titled “ Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed ,” interviewing relationship experts as well as other dudes on their own difficult divorce journeys.

Over the years, he has counseled relationship-addled guys for a multitude of issues, including an age-old one: sticking with a relationship for the kids.

“ I have never told someone to stay married for their children … ever. That is the worst reason to stay married,” Nachlinger matter-of-factly told The Post. “I a