Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here .

Dear Care and Feeding,

Today I received a call from the school principal to tell me that my 6-year-old son, “Chris,” had made a rude comment to his teacher about her breasts. I was flabbergasted, but I know exactly where he picked this up: his father. My ex-husband, “Wayne,” went down the manosphere rabbit hole when our son was a little over a year old. It is the reason we split up. Since then he has only gotten worse, and now he is influencing Chris. Would it be worth trying to get our custody arrangement (currently 50/50) changed?

—Mini Misogynist in the Making

Dear Mini Misogynist,

You have to take this seriously, but it may be a little soon to try and alter your cu

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