Key points

You're single again. Navigating dating's New World can be confusing.

How does it all work these days, finding matches on online dating sites and microcommunities?

How fast should you take things to avoid floodlighting and over-disclosing too soon?

Early dates should be sharing “real-life” values and interests. Delay deep topics until trust develops.

So you find yourself single again after many years. After a healthy adjustment period, you’re ready to find a new partner. You’ve even met somebody interesting, but you feel awkward. Dating culture has changed. You feel like a dinosaur. How does it all work in this particular historic moment? And most importantly, how fast should you take things?

Unless you happen to find chemistry with a colleague or a fellow gym user, you’re

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