In a recent study published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin , researchers tracked over 3,000 people to understand why they seek love. They found that the love that thrives aligns with intrinsic motivation and identified regulation — genuine, internalized reasons for pursuing a relationship.

Individuals with autonomous motivation were more likely to develop and maintain long-term romantic relationships . It was less a matter of obligation and more one of genuine concern for their partner’s happiness .

Unconditional love has no strings attached. When your partner loves without expectation, they don’t place demands or issue ultimatums. They love you without exception. Their love is predictable, and it’s not rooted in a fear of rejection, societal expectation, or

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