Sex advice: I just realized where I know the man I'm dating from, so I told him. His response stunned me.

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Dear How to Do It,

I’m a woman with a super high libido. As an outlet when I’m not having regular sex, I enjoy sexting with strangers on Reddit. I don’t share pictures of myself, but men on there are more than happy to show me whatever I want to see.

A few months ago, I started dating a man I met online. We clicked right away, wanted all the same things, and both agreed we could see a future with each other. After we were intimate for the first time, I realized that his nether-regions looked familiar … I went back to check (the photos were still in our chat history) and sure enough, he was one of the guys I had sexted with over the course of a few months.

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