Dear Eric: I had a pancreas transplant in 2018. Due to this, along with celiac disease, I’m on a very restricted and medically controlled diet. There are very few things I can safely eat. However, I find during the holidays, people attempt to make me special food during parties and get-togethers.

I normally do not eat at other people’s homes due to food preparation and sanitary concerns for my transplant, as well as not being able to verify a gluten-free environment when the food was made.

How should I handle when people bring food to these gatherings or mention that they made me something special? I don’t want to be rude because I know it was done in love, but I also don’t want to get sick or risk cross-contamination. How should I respond without hurting someone’s feelings?

— Medically

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