Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous!

Dear How to Do It,

Like most sexually healthy couples, my boyfriend and I consume pornography. But I’m worried about the sorts of stuff my boyfriend likes. He prefers pornographic games to videos or pictures; he says they’re “more interactive.” I haven’t gone through his porn game folder or anything, but every time I glance over to him playing the stuff, it’s always the same basic setup.

He plays some sort of male self-insert character who goes out and acquires a harem of sexually submissive female characters who are willing to gradually be corrupted i

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