DEAR ABBY: Ten years ago, I connected with “Christi,” a daughter I fathered with a woman I was in a relationship with for a short time decades ago.

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We split before I knew my girlfriend was pregnant. She didn’t tell me until after the baby was born. By that time, she was married to a man Christi knew as her dad.

Christi no longer acknowledges him as her father. She and I developed our relationship, and it would be impossible for me to love her more than I do.

When I retired five years ago, she asked me to move closer to her and my 11-year-old granddaughter. She said she would appreciate help with things like driving her to school and activities.

Since relocating, though, I have been given very little access to either of them. Christi’s family has poisoned my granddaugh

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