MESSAGES about great sex and mindblowing orgasms are everywhere: from our TV screens to books to Instagram.

But rarely do they explain - or show - how to make sex feel good.

Indeed, countless films, TV shows, porn and plays portray women reaching orgasm from intercourse alone.

When in truth, up to 80 per cent of women don’t orgasm from penetrative sex, and nine have never had an orgasm during heterosexual intercourse at all.

If this sounds all too familiar, fear not.

Here, two health and sex experts explain everything you need to know about having a good orgasm.

1. Focus on touch

Perhaps it's time to rethink what part of the sexual act is most important.

Instead of intercourse being the main course, why not place more importance on the starter? Foreplay.

And this doesn't just incl

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