Parent advice: I know what would make my boyfriend's life complete. It's something I never thought I'd do.

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Dear Care and Feeding,

I have always been neutral to negative about the idea of having kids. I don’t feel called to it. I like my freedom. But now, at 27, I am DEEPLY in love with a man who does want kids, though not for a long time yet. We’ve talked about it; he knows how I feel.

I can’t emphasize enough how much of a walking green flag this man is. I would do anything for him. Is it crazy that I’m considering compromising my stance on having children? I don’t mean in the sense that I would do it so he would stay. It’s more so that I want to give him the gift of being a father, because I know it will make him happy. Also, I think it would be fun to have a child with hi