After suspecting infidelity, “Searching for Answers” wrote in to the Dear Annie column . He reported hiring a private investigator and discovered his wife was having an affair.

A DNA test revealed the child he had raised for four years was not biologically his. He initiated divorce and sought to terminate parental rights, feeling deceived. His decision led to estrangement from his wife, in-laws, and even his own parents. He wonders if he’s wrong for walking away.

Annie acknowledges the deep pain and betrayal but separates the issues of marriage and fatherhood. She emphasizes that the child is innocent and urges the writer to consider the long-term emotional impact of cutting ties. Annie advises making decisions with clarity rather than anger and recommends seeking therapy to process th

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