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Dear How to Do It,

My husband and I are in our late 40s, and for the last several months, he has developed an obsession that is starting to drive me insane. It all started when he decided to measure his penis.

He is now absolutely convinced it’s is shrinking. He has measured it at least half a dozen times a day and is recording the results. There have been instances where it has been slightly shorter than others, and it sends him into a near-panic. Now he is looking into dick lengthening procedures. None of my assurances that I am perfectly satisfied with him in bed have done anything to allay his fears. I don’t want to seem unsupportive, but I am fed up with his fi

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