DEAR ERIC: We go to a lot of concerts and sporting events, and I want to watch and/or listen. However, so often, others just want to talk. I need a polite way to ask them to leave me alone so I can watch and enjoy the event. Any ideas?

– Here for the Band

DEAR BAND: It’s probably easiest to address this beforehand. If you’re going with a group, or even with a friend or two, tell them in advance, “I’m really excited about this event. I know sometimes the group can get into conversation at things like this. But I like to focus. So, don’t think I’m being rude if I don’t participate.”

What you’re looking to do is just reset an expectation. It sounds like the people you go with expect concerts and sporting events to be opportunities for social connection. And for a lot of people, that’s what

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